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First Day Actively Searching for a Surrogate

Related to Surrogate Mother | Posted on April 23rd, 2015

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So, this blog may be good for me to vent.Today is my official first day that I began searching for a surrogate.I don't know how to begin and from what I have seen online I can't offered the traditional sites.I think most people wonder why I haven't asked a female in my or my husbands family.Truth be told I am scared, I don't know who or how.Our families aren't as open minded as the women I see on Lifetime.This is my last step before I sadly close the door on the part of my life.I hope I can voice my emotional state as I go thru this blog.But, now my mind is thinking....was my profile to confiding.Do people overlook me because I only chose US or African or American.Do they think I am closed minded? I don't know, little do the know I just want a baby....Good Night

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Cherie - Intended Parent

Location: USA / Virginia / Stafford | Member since: April 22nd, 2015 [EDT]

I have been diagnosed with infertility. Over the years I have endured the testing, shots, disappointments, pain, surgeries etc. and my heart and body has become tired. As a 40 year old woman my chance ... See Profile

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Juliet, Surrogate Mother

Commented on May 21st, 2015 05:07AM [EDT]

Touching...
Dear Cherie, Your post is very touching, But like you said, surrogacy is expensive.9 months is not 9 days.The surro sort of stops living for almost a year, thats why the money reward must be substantial.It must be worth the stress and the pain experienced in the labour room.Thats why the standard fee is from *** upwards.It has to be worth it for anyone going down that painful road.I am sorry to say, but at up to *** no one will consider you.

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