New to this and looking for surrogate and egg donor

I'm new to this site, still trying to figure out how it works.I'm a 37 year old gay male, married.My husband is 36.We've been together for 13 years.We're looking to start a family, but we are still at the beginning of our journey still gathering information.We have contemplated back and forth between adoption and surrogacy, but I have a strong connection for a biological child.Overall I'm looking to get to know more about the surrogacy process and talk to others who have experienced the steps.