why is it so hard

Why is it so hard to find an IP.Why does it all have to be so complicated lawyers bank accounts .To be quite honest I just want to buy a condo or put a down payment on a house so my son can have a backyard to run in.I would give anyone a chance that was willing to give me a chance.I would like to be a gestational surrogate.I don't just want to do this for the money although it will be extremely helpful but I also know it would be just as gratifying for me to see that I was able to help complete a family.I have never been great at anything but I was great at being pregnant and I know that it is something I could for someone else.............Some honesty to take some of the pressure off a very stressful situation...Hope this reaches the right person who understands what i'm trying to say ...I know this is a serious situation but why can't this just be like the movie babymama minus the fact that its my child in the end ......with love and humbleness