From a young age I know I wanted to help others.At first before I even had my own children I had talked to my husband about donated my eggs to help those that needed it.I was going to wait until we had our own children and we knew we didn't want any more children.
You could say that time came without warning, when due to an unforeseen circumstance, I ended up pregnant with my third son and it wasn't my husbands.I was scared, very scared but my husband was very supportive and told me whatever decision I make he will fully support.For the baby's and my own safety I had decided to find a family to adopt him.The search began very shortly after I made my decision.After many interviews and searching with the help of an agency we found a family.They were located in the Southeast so they were a few states away but we got to know each other pretty well.They even made it in time for the birth, I even had the mother in the room.They seemed so excited and loving, then less than 24 hours after his birth they backed out.For reasons of their own they packed up and left.
So I had to make the decision all over again.I cried and cried, I didn't know what to do.I decided to call the agency and see what we could do, luckily my agent was already on it and she told me if I approve she had the PERFECT family ready to catch a plane within minutes.After talking to the family I agreed they were perfect.They were on a plane within hours of hanging up the phone.
I have stayed in contact with them over the years and I truly believe everything happens for a reason.The whole family fits perfectly and they are just amazing people.If it wasn't for the entire situation as a whole I would have never met them or made the decision that if I am strong enough to get through this, I can do this for a family and fully their dreams of completing their family.
I cannot thank my husband enough each day for supporting my through that very difficult time in our lives.I also can't thank the Gonzales family enough for just being amazing.
