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Alan, American Intended Parent in Mansfield Center, Connecticut, USA

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Mansfield Center
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Intended Parent from Mansfield Center, Connecticut, USA.

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Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

I know it's trite to say that having a child would complete me, but that's pretty much the truth.My ex-wife and I went through three rounds of IVF before the doctor delivered the devastating news that her eggs were not healthy enough.I seek a traditional surrogate, using IUI in a doctor's office or clinic because it is a healthier choice than the use of fertility drugs. I also have one other non-negotiable: I am seeking a known surrogate - not an anonymous one.In fact, I am open to, and would welcome continued involvement in our child’s life in any way.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

As I approach my 65th birthday, I try to keep my ego in check, remain calm, and care about the world and the creatures who inhabit it.I love life and have a long list of places I want to see, books I want to read and things I want to learn.My great passions are theatre, traveling, reading, music, art, swimming, cosmology, nature and religion. My biggest flaw is my temper, but I am not a physically violent person.When I am angry, I lash out with my tongue. I was born to an Irish Catholic woman, raised by an adopted Jewish family, but my spiritual beliefs come from being a hippie in my youth.I believe there is an interconnectedness among all living beings. I have had two successful careers as a teacher and a theatre director.I am certified in English, Math and Theatre and have over twenty years of teaching experience in the public schools.I also founded the Hartford Children’s Theatre, which ran for 20 years, and I have directed over *** plays – mostly by and/or for children and their families.

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Dear Surrogate Mom, I have been looking for you for quite some time.Please help become a Dad. -Alan

Mansfield Center

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Erica Ferreira dos, Surrogate Mother
Commented on November 12th, 2018 08:04PM [EDT]
Surrogate mother
The best part of surrogacy is knowing I'm doing it for the right reasons. I can hardly wait delivering the baby and observing the parents finally seeing him or her for the first time. There are a lot of sacrifices I will need to make as a surrogate. I have considered all pros and cons and I am certain I must be a surrogate for as long as I can. I have been pregnant twice and both times, I was using protection. That goes to show, I come from an extremely fertile family. Nevertheless, I've never wanted to have children of my own, this is why I've given my children up for adoption and have no regrets. I have always known instinctually that I’m not an attached type of person. Neither, am I the mother type. I view surrogacy as a long babysitting project. It’s not sad for me at all. The only regret I have is that I haven't done it sooner. I am a 36-year-old Portuguese teacher who is willing to dedicate the next 5 years of my life being a surrogate to help others make their dreams come true and also, to build up a nest to invest on a house and on my phD certification.
Kateryna, Surrogate Mother
Commented on August 4th, 2018 06:45AM [EDT]
I am ready for you to become a surrogate mother.
Hello. I'm looking for responsible parent. I want to become a surrogate. I live in Moscow. Please look at my profile and it's interesting for me to discuss the details in detail. I will be happy to help you. Good luck with your search It's great that you decided to become a father , children are happiness! Yes, I am ready for you to become a surrogate mother. My name is Katya, I'm 33 years old, I'm not married, I have two children. I can move to your country for a pregnancy program only with my children, I can not leave them and go to you for a long time.
Jamie, Surrogate Mother
Commented on June 12th, 2018 10:29AM [EDT]
Hi! My name is Jamie. I am willing to help you. If you are still looking, kindly send me a message. Hope to hear from you soon.
Tetiana , Egg Donor
Commented on May 16th, 2018 05:22AM [EDT]
Hello. Please contact if you are interesting
RIYN, Egg Donor
Commented on May 15th, 2018 10:29AM [EDT]
egg donor
4x experienced egg donor.I met one of my IP here and had my retrieval last April *** am now available to help out again.Let me know :)
ADESSY, Surrogate Mother
Commented on February 11th, 2018 10:26AM [EDT]
Surrogate Mother
Hello, Please check my profile and contact me if you have interest. Thanks
Heidi, Surrogate Mother
Commented on February 3rd, 2018 09:46PM [EDT]
Still searching
Hi hope you are on your way to becoming a parent, if not please message me. I'd live to help.
stephenie, Surrogate Mother
Commented on January 21st, 2018 05:56PM [EDT]
surrogate mother
Hello from Plymouth Connecticut, If you'd like to possibly have me become a Gestational surrogate mother to your child give me a message. Thank you, Stephenie.
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