Intended Parent from Justin, Texas, USA.
Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:
I chose surrogacy because I strongly desire a biological child and want to be involved in every step of their journey into this world. This process is deeply personal, and I have the utmost respect for the women who make this dream possible for families like mine. I will fully support and appreciate my surrogate every step of the way, ensuring that she is comfortable, cared for, and treated with the kindness and gratitude she deserves. I plan to treat my surrogate like family. Family is everything to me. Though I will be a single father, I have an incredible support system of close friends and extended family who will be part of my child’s life. I believe in raising my child in a loving and enriched environment where they feel safe, celebrated, and supported in their dreams. My parenting philosophy is centered around love, education, and personal growth. I want my child to know their worth, to embrace their unique identity, and to grow up in a home where they feel seen and valued. I plan to provide them with a great education, a comfortable and happy home, and meaningful life experiences. I am beyond excited for this journey, and I can’t wait to meet the incredible woman who will help me bring my child into the world. If you believe you might be the right match, I would love to connect and share more about my vision for this life-changing experience.
How would you best describe yourself(s):
Hello, my name is DeOntay Malachi Lovette , and I’m a 22-year-old content creator and entrepreneur. Originally from Cincinnati, Ohio I now live a fulfilling and independent life, working in social media full-time while preparing for the biggest journey of my life—fatherhood. I would describe myself as kind, determined, and deeply family-oriented. I’ve always known that being a father was a core part of my purpose, and while I initially thought I’d wait until my 30s, I’ve realized that there’s no perfect time—only the right decision. My dream is to raise a child with love, stability, and endless opportunities to thrive. I work in digital media, balancing creativity with responsibility. My career allows me to work from home and maintain a flexible schedule, which will enable me to be a hands-on father. I also have a strong financial foundation, ensuring that my child will be well-provided for in every way. Beyond work, I love holidays, spending time with close friends (who all have children), and planning for the future.
Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:
Dear Incredible Surrogate, I don’t know your name yet, but I already know that you are an extraordinary person. You have chosen to embark on a journey that is nothing short of life-changing—not just for yourself, but for me, for my future child, and for every hopeful parent who dreams of the moment they finally get to hold their baby in their arms. From the bottom of my heart, I want to thank you. Thank you for your strength, for your kindness, and for the immense love it takes to give someone the gift of life. Choosing to be a surrogate is not just a decision—it’s a selfless act of generosity, one that requires patience, resilience, and an open heart. I can only imagine the physical and emotional sacrifices that come with this journey, and I want you to know that every single step you take in this process will be appreciated beyond words. For me, fatherhood is not just a dream—it is my purpose. It is something I have envisioned for years, something I have planned for, and something I know I am meant to experience. And because of you, that dream is becoming reality. Because of you, I will get to hear my child’s laughter, watch them take their first steps, celebrate their birthdays, and guide them through life with all the love in my heart. You are not just helping me bring a child into this world—you are giving them a life filled with love, security, and endless possibilities. And I promise you, with everything I have, that I will honor this journey by being the best father I can be. I want you to know that throughout this process, you will be supported, cared for, and treated with the deepest respect and gratitude. Your well-being matters just as much as this baby’s, and I will always recognize the incredible gift you are giving. No words will ever be enough to express my gratitude, but I hope you know that because of you, my life—and my child’s life—will be forever changed for the better. With immense appreciation and respect, De'Ontay Malachi Lovette