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ZHI, Other Intended Parent in Rochester, New York, USA

Name
ZHI
Member Type
Intended Parent
Country
USA
Region/State
New York
City
Rochester
Date Registered
3 years ago
Profile Updated
3 years ago
Last Login
2 years ago
Messages Sent
0
Messages Received
7

Intended Parent from Rochester, New York, USA.

Looking to Connect With
Surrogate Mothers, Egg Donors

My Couple Type
Single Man

Marital Status

My Age

My Nationality

My Race

My Religion

My Spoken Language(s)

Smoker

My Education

I'm Willing to Travel
Yes

Number of Children (non surrogate)

I've Had a Surrogate/Donor Before
No

Number of Surrogate Children
0

I've Budgeted for Surrogacy Expenses

Prefer Surrogates/Donors from
USA

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

Now I am 40 years old and I have been through many different cultures, ups and downs in my own personal life, and never-ending self-education with principles and philosophies on how to improve myself. I do meditation every day and I exercise every day. But what I am also eager to have in my life is to love and nurture a kid as much as I should, share my life lessons with him or her, watch him or her grow into a beautiful adult, and smile when he or she calls me the stubborn, old man. Even though I never stop self-reflecting all that I have done in life and how to become a better person, the thought of having a child (which has been on my mind for over 10 years) struck me to become even the best person that I can. I want to be the role model for the kid and I want to be proud by my son or daughter as much as I proud of him or her.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

I am a very stable, loving, secured single man who wants to be a father.I am willing to do it as a single parent.

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

Nice to meet you! First of all, I really want to express my deepest gratitude to you because you are willing to consider helping me or other people in the similar situations to achieve one of the biggest dreams in our life ever.It is very honorable and altruistic to say the least. I would like to give you a brief introduction of me.I originally came from China.I stayed in China till I finished the master program and then headed to the University of Alabama to finish my Ph.D.study.Now I am a college professor in Rochester NY.I came from a broken family but both of my parents were very responsible parents.Growing up in that environment.I was always striving to be the model boy that makes everyone proud; I studied very hard, I joined sports team, I sang, and I was casted in stage plays.I actually got the top award in almost all these fields that I had participated. However, I was never truly happy.I was struggling with a big secret in my heart that had been hidden from everyone for more than 30 years.I was serious and tough; I had to, otherwise I worried the big secret would slip out when I was momentarily weak.For this reason, I hate myself for not being able to be the one that I was supposed to be.I decided to keep doing what I should do as defined by my parents and the society, instead of what I truly wanted to do. In *** I moved to Alabama to pursue my doctorate degree.It was there, the southern hospitality and the laid back culture slowly liberated me.For the first time, I realized that I could be still a good person, while being happy.There I met my teachers and friends, who softened me and helped me to embark the journey of self-discovery with the endless patience. It took me another 10 years to finally collect the courage to come out as a gay person while stop feeling guilty for myself.I am a strong and sunny person, but sometimes I can be stubborn and set in the old ways while being blind to the doors opened by God of being a better person. Now I am 40 years old and I have been through many different cultures, ups and downs in my own personal life, and never-ending self-education with principles and philosophies on how to improve myself.I do meditation every day and I exercise every day.But what I am also eager to have in my life is to love and nurture a kid as much as I should, share my life lessons with him or her, watch him or her grow into a beautiful adult, and smile when he or she calls me the stubborn, old man.Even though I never stop self-reflecting all that I have done in life and how to become a better person, the thought of having a child (which has been on my mind for over 10 years) struck me to become even the best person that I can.I want to be the role model for the kid and I want to be proud by my son or daughter as much as I proud of him or her. I am not sure if I have truly expressed myself in a meaningful way.What I can guarantee you is that I will love this kid endlessly and encourage him or her to be a happy, sunny, and helpful person who has a high level of integrity.From my own experience, true happiness will never arrive with the compromise of integrity. I am sorry for this long letter and I humbly ask you to consider my case.If you have any questions, please ask me directly or through the agency, and I will be more than happy to provide you with the honest answers.Thank you very much! Sincerely, Tom

USA
New York
Rochester

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Melissa, Egg Donor
Commented on January 20th, 2017 08:33PM [EDT]
Egg Donor Available
Please read my profile and contact me if you're interested. My husband and I have had three full term, healthy, beautiful, and smart children. Best of luck!
Asian, Egg Donor
Commented on April 19th, 2016 04:21PM [EDT]
Experienced Asian Egg Donor
Hi, I have donated 4 times already which resulted to 17, 14, 22 and 22 eggs being retrieved.The most recent one was just last month (March 12, *** am located in New Jersey, USA but I am willing to travel anywhere in the US or if needed outside the US.I would love to help you out.You can *** look forward to hearing more from you.:-)
RIYN, Egg Donor
Commented on April 14th, 2016 12:59PM [EDT]
hello
hello Good day! I saw your profile and my heart lit up! Imy name is riyn 28yo, healthy asian who live here in america. I am willing to help you fulfill your dream of having a baby.I am listed as an egg donor. Please read my profile and let me know if you think we would be a match! Have a great day.
Hailey, Surrogate Mother
Commented on February 29th, 2016 06:59PM [EDT]
Surrogate
Hello, I am interested in helping you become a father. If you have not picked someone else and is also interested please contact me. Thank you
mariami, Egg Donor
Commented on February 28th, 2016 06:56PM [EDT]
maria
you can write me mail and talk about this :)
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Commented on February 22nd, 2016 01:51AM [EDT]
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Commented on February 21st, 2016 02:57AM [EDT]
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