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Ericka, American Intended Parent in Lincoln, Rhode Island, USA

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Rhode Island
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Intended Parent from Lincoln, Rhode Island, USA.

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Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

We have had many blessings but we also have had our fair share of tragedy. Our second son was born at 26 weeks gestation. He had a very rough go of it, hitting every issue a NICU baby could. After almost three months of living in the NICU he passed away. It was, what I thought, the worst day of my life and took years before I could say his name, or tell his story with out breaking down. We wanted to have a big family, so after consulting with a MFM we decided to get pregnant. It was found during that pregnancy that I had an incompetent cervix. I went to the ob's weekly, took weekly injections and had a cerclage. He was born at 34 weeks, big and strong and just the cutest little fella. We thought we'd found the solution to our issue and were told that we'd do well carrying to at least 34 weeks but probably longer. We got pregnant again, but it didn't go as we d hoped. Benjamin was born at 25 weeks gestation, but he was strong and feisty and breathing on his own. He had the cutest wrinkled forehead and curious eyes, and was doing well. We started talking about when he'd come home... But then late one night we got a call... 3 hours later he was dead from an intestinal issue that affects premature babies. The hours where I held his lifeless body was the strongest grief I'd ever felt.. It physically hurt. Ive always wanted to be a mommy and wanted a large family filled with chaos and noise and messes, but since we don't know why I can't carry to term I have to accept that I can not carry any more children and am now dependant on the generousity and selfless of someone I ve never met.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

I am a very honest person who believes in doing the right thing even when no one is looking. I'm laid back, understanding and generous. I am a loyal friend and wife, but what I feel am most proud of is who I am as a mother. My life is my children and I am happy to give them all of me. It is never a sacrifice, but a privilege.

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Jenna, Surrogate Mother
Commented on August 11th, 2017 08:53PM [EDT]
Still Looking?
Hello Erika, Would love to talk to you about possibly being your surrogate. Feel free to message me if you have any questions or are interested in speaking with me. Thanks!
kristina, Surrogate Mother
Commented on September 30th, 2016 11:08PM [EDT]
Hello My name is Kristina I'm a 28 yr old mother of 3 and a traditional surro mom to 2 is love to help you become a mother again.I'm located in nh a surrogate friendly state and wiling to begin right away.I'd love to talk message me
kristina, Surrogate Mother
Commented on September 27th, 2016 06:44PM [EDT]
Hi Hun I want so badly to help you.Are you willing to consider a traditional surrogate? or only gestational? If so I would love to chat and help you out. I'm cycling right now and will be ovulating soon so can start right away or know when to plan for another cycle. I'm located in Manchester nh and have insurance.Feel free to email me *** Take care
Gestational, Surrogate Mother
Commented on September 14th, 2016 08:53AM [EDT]
Hi Erika,
I was a gestational surrogate once before and it was very successful.Please get in touch if you would like to chat and explore options.Read my profile for more info.Contact me
Ashley, Surrogate Mother
Commented on September 9th, 2016 02:10PM [EDT]
I'd love to help!
Please check out my profile. If you're interested in talking, send me a message!
Tatiyana, Surrogate Mother
Commented on August 17th, 2016 08:22AM [EDT]
Hi i,m surrogate mother and i want help you tru, pleass contact me on my email adress also i have skype,i can born for you legaly,have a nice day!
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