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Tom, American Intended Parent in Los Angeles, California, USA

Name
Tom
Member Type
Intended Parent
Country
USA
Region/State
California
City
Los Angeles
Date Registered
6 years ago
Profile Updated
5 years ago
Last Login
5 years ago
Messages Sent
31
Messages Received
28

Intended Parent from Los Angeles, California, USA.

Looking to Connect With
Surrogate Mothers

My Couple Type
Single Man

Marital Status

My Age

My Nationality

My Race

My Spoken Language(s)

Smoker

My Education

Number of Children (non surrogate)

I've Had a Surrogate/Donor Before
No

Number of Surrogate Children
0

Prefer Surrogates/Donors from
USA

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

I've always wanted to become a parent. As a gay man, there is no reason to wait until I find a partner before having a child. I am one of six children, and I have ten nieces and nephews, so family is important to me. I will raise my child in my community of family and friends.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

I'm a lawyer working in this field, representing parents, surrogates, and donors. I am looking for a match for myself, because I am ready to start a family. (But if we are not a match, I might be able to help you match with my clients.) My background before becoming a lawyer is as an artist and a writer. I am originally from Ireland. I've lived in London, Paris, New York, and now L.A. for the past 9yrs. I live with my best friend and our 13yr old dog, and life is good. I work at home, sometimes in the garden. I like cooking, reading, movies, and going to see art. I am an optimist.

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

Dear Surrogate, Thank you for considering helping me on my journey to parenthood. I am very excited to take this next big step towards becoming a father, and I am very grateful for your help. I already have frozen embryos and I am hoping we can get started soon. Because I work as an attorney working with parents and surrogates, I am familiar with the process for us both, and I will behave ethically and professionally, and pay you the going rate, and I hope we will become friends. My doctor tells me that he would prefer if you are under 40yrs, with a BMI of less than 30, have already given birth, but haven't had more than 2 c-sections. I will need you to have access to your medical records, be willing to submit to background checks, medical screening, blood work, psychological screening, and enter a legal contract. I will organize and pay for everything. Let me know if you have any questions, and maybe we can arrange to meet. Thank you. Tom

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Starla, Surrogate Mother
Commented on July 1st, 2019 07:21AM [EDT]
Surrogate
Hello Tom, was wondering if you found a surrogate. If not message me. I am very interested.
Stork Service, Surrogacy Agency
Commented on December 3rd, 2018 05:13AM [EDT]
we are here to help you
Dear Tom, At the Stork Service surrogacy center all of us are mums and dads, and some of us have already got grandchildren. The feeling of the first touch of your baby’s fingers lives in our souls our whole lives. We sincerely decided to devote our activities to help childless couples find the joy of parenting. This common goal makes the staff of the center a cohesive team. We have worked out the scheme of supporting biological parents, and accompanying surrogate mothers and oocyte donors. The best clinics in reproductive medicine are among our partners. Effective logistics makes it possible to provide our services to clients from all over the world. Contact us.
Elizabeth, Surrogate Mother
Commented on November 11th, 2018 12:50AM [EDT]
Hello!
You have an amazing story! I find it inspirational that you help those who are in the same shoes as you are. I hope that we can talk more! My husband and I are ready to help you bring your bundle of joy into this world. Elizabeth C.
Brooke, Surrogate Mother
Commented on October 10th, 2018 11:03PM [EDT]
Gestational carrier
Hi Tom 😊 My name is Brooke and after reading your profile I wanted to reach out to you and see if you would check out my profile and see if you felt like maybe I was the right match for you! I hope to hear from you! 💖
Tetiana , Egg Donor
Commented on October 8th, 2018 03:14PM [EDT]
Egg donor
Hello. Please contact me if you are interesting
SHAAN , Surrogate Mother
Commented on September 18th, 2018 07:12PM [EDT]
Yes
MY best friend living in USA California, interested as surrogate mother, reasonable compensation require.
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