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allison, American Intended Parent in Morrison, Colorado, USA

Name
allison
Member Type
Intended Parent
Country
USA
Region/State
Colorado
City
Morrison
Date Registered
2 months ago
Profile Updated
2 months ago
Last Login
1 month ago
Messages Sent
6
Messages Received
8
Response Rate
%12.5

Intended Parent from Morrison, Colorado, USA.

Looking to Connect With
Surrogate Mothers

My Couple Type
Heterosexual Couple

Marital Status

My Age

My Nationality

My Race

My Religion

Smoker

My Education

Number of Children (non surrogate)

Number of Surrogate Children
0

Prefer Surrogates/Donors Ages
25-35

I've Budgeted for Surrogacy Expenses

Prefer Surrogates/Donors from
USA

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

My husband and I have been trying since my daughter turned 1. We tried multiple rounds of IUIs and 3 IVF transfers. Nothing has worked (I had one miscarriage two years ago before I tried IVF). That was excruciating. I have had multiple uterine surgeries to remove fibroids and scar tissue since my daughter was born and my doctor thinks that my uterus is too compromised to get pregnant and/ or carry a child. I also had a condition called HELLP syndrome when my daughter was born and in the rare chance I was able to get pregnant again the risk of developing HELLP syndrome again is fairly high. The infant mortality rate is anywhere between 10 to 60 percent with HELLP syndrome. (But the fact of the matter is I can't conceive). My doctor thinks that I have heathy eggs but that I need to find a surrogate in order to have another child.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

I am a very positive and upbeat person. Yet I am also very introspective. I am the Executive Director of a small nonprofit organization - and love nothing more than seeing people’s lives improve. I live in CO with my wonderful and supportive husband of 8 years and my 5 year old daughter who is the light of my life. I love the outdoors and when I am not working, I enjoy hiking, biking, and swimming in the summer and skiing in the winter. My favorite thing of all is spending time with my 5 year old daughter. I think my greatest strength is being a loving parent. I want nothing more than to be a mother to another child.

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

I want to have another child more than anything in the world. My daughter has been begging me for a sibling since she could talk. When we go to the store she wants to buy bottles, pacifiers and clothes for a baby sister or brother - but preferably a sister)! When I tell her that mommy and daddy are trying to have another child she says ‘try harder.’ I am constantly reminded that the thing that I want the most - I can’t have. It makes it worse that I feel like I keep letting my daughter down and that breaks my heart. She is the most loving, kind, positive, funny, fun loving, charismatic, present and mindful child. I want to give her the chance to be a big sister because it’s what she wants more than anything- but despite all my efforts over the past 4 and a half years, I can’t. The fact that you are considering being a surrogate says volumes about your character. I know what I am asking is a lot. But I hope you will consider being the person that makes our dreams a reality. I would love to find someone that just fits with our family. I have heard many people say that their surrogate becomes like a soul sister. I would love that - but I would also support your decision to not be involved. The only thing that matters is that you eat healthy, be relatively active, be positive, take care of yourself and the incredibly precious cargo you would be carrying.

USA
Colorado
Morrison

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Naila, Surrogate Mother
Commented on October 6th, 2018 10:37PM [EDT]
Hi
My friend 28 yrs living in California available as Surrogate mother and egg donor. Medical Insurance valid until December 2019. Urgent reply if interested. Contact
Psalm, Surrogate Mother
Commented on September 21st, 2018 06:47AM [EDT]
SurroMom
Hi, Allison. I'd like to be a SurroMom for your baby. I live in the Philippines. Please send me a message if you're interested. Hope to hear from you soon. 😊
Stephanie, Surrogate Mother
Commented on August 23rd, 2018 07:50PM [EDT]
Surrogate Mother
Hello, my name is Stephanie, currently living in Portugal. I would be very happy to help you. I have one son which I love so much and I know the feeling of having your baby. And I would love to be able to help someone to get that feeling too and build their family. If you are interested feel free to contact me.
Quinones, Surrogate Mother
Commented on August 20th, 2018 04:35AM [EDT]
Hello
Hi Hi hope you doing good, well wow your story made my heart skipped an beat...I'm a single 25 year old mom from Fresno California I'm in good health I don't smoke and drink alcohol at all I had two pregnancy with no complications I would love to take this wonderful journey with you I'm ready to start the process as soon as you are ready and I'm willing to travel you can contact me at anytime if you have any questions please feel free to ask hope to hear from your soon respond.
Lilian, Surrogate Mother
Commented on August 17th, 2018 06:31PM [EDT]
Helo dear
Your story is touching and it honestly reached a soft spot in me . Am open to trying this amazing journey with you if you would let me I would help you fulfill this amazing journey for you your family and to your precious daughter . All the best
Kim, Surrogate Mother
Commented on August 16th, 2018 08:31AM [EDT]
Hi I would love to take this wonderful journey
Hi hope you well wow you had quite an journey I would love to take this wonderful journey with you I'm in good health I don't smoke or drink alcohol at all I had two pregnancy with no complications and im willing to travel if you have any questions please feel free to ask hope to hear from your soon respond.
Angels Friend s.r.o, Surrogacy Agency
Commented on August 7th, 2018 12:46PM [EDT]
We can assist you
Dear Allison Being an Intended Parents is stressful and the time it takes to find a surrogate can prove to be endless. Sometimes you find a surrogate that you love so much and at some point she does not reply back any longer or to your disappointment she tells you that she prefers to assist another couple. The years are passing by without you moving forward in your endeavours while your egg clock is ticking. It is even more stressful and heartbreaking imagining all that could go wrong while having the treatments without an agency to cover your exposure. And let alone that surrogacy treatment is not 100% guarantee to be successful on the first attempt. Angels Friend based in Prague (Czech Republic) providing service to heterosexual couples that would like to go into surrogacy... Contact us today and start your treatment as soon as it pleases you. We find a surrogate more or less straight away and assist you on the surrogacy journey. Do not delay today anymore. Kindly visit our website for further information. We hope to hear from you soon Sara
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