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Lea, American Intended Parent in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA

Name
Lea
Member Type
Intended Parent
Country
USA
Region/State
Tennessee
City
Spring Hill
Date Registered
2 months ago
Profile Updated
1 month ago
Last Login
1 week ago
Messages Sent
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Messages Received
35
Response Rate
%54.50

Intended Parent from Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA.

Looking to Connect With
Surrogate Mothers

My Couple Type
Heterosexual Couple

Marital Status

My Age

My Nationality

My Race

My Religion

My Spoken Language(s)

My Education

I'm Willing to Travel
Yes

Number of Children (non surrogate)

I've Had a Surrogate/Donor Before
Yes

Number of Surrogate Children
0

Prefer Surrogates/Donors Ages
25-35

I've Budgeted for Surrogacy Expenses

Prefer Surrogates/Donors of these Nationalities
American

Prefer Surrogates/Donors from
USA

Explain your reasons for wanting a surrogate/donor:

My husband and I have been married nearly 15 years in April. We have tried to have children for about that long too. We have been through it all but we keep hoping with every step we will finally have our dream come true. We have done about 10 years of fertility treatments or more. Then we took a break because it was taking a financial and mental toll on us. We decided because of the fact that we BOTH have fertility issues we would use a donor and a surrogate. To make a long story short, which I will completely expand upon if we get to talk to to you in person, we have already found our donor and did a cycle which produced 6 perfect PGS tested embryos- 4 girls and 2 boys. We are so thankful for this technology that allows to know these embryos are normal and healthy given we are in our mid-40's. We also found our perfect Surrogate independently 2 years ago. The sweetest and most perfect lady to help us, so we thought. We just went through our first cycle with her with our clinic in N.C. She failed the first cycle because of fluid in her uterus. The RE canceled the cycle. We then found out that she had been through a mock cycle with an agency a year before we met her. My attorney found out somehow and demanded the medical records , and we found out the hard way she was medically disqualified to be a Surrogate (she always gets liquid in her uterus in response to the medications). This was after we had spent more than 15k on her for physical/mental examines which she passed with flying colors. And getting her insurance and legal costs. so the fact she never gave the other info the whole time we were qualifying her, was a very bad shock. We are of course now looking for a new surrogate. We don t have the budget to pay an agency fee but we have enough saved for a new surrogate who would be ready to get started immediately. We have the embryos so we are looking for a proven donor or an individual who knows they are medically fit to be a surrogate ASAP. You will not have to wait long for the opportunity to do this for us. We are ready to go as we did our part already! We are hoping to get going with it as soon as we find the right surrogate! We do not live in N.C but our clinic is there because we felt they were the right fit for us seeing they do many donor egg and surrogate cycles with great success rates. It is a short flight away. Nice people at our clinic.

How would you best describe yourself(s):

I am from the USA and my husband is from Holland. We both live in the USA now in Tennessee. It is where I was born and my huge family is here with two sisters, one brother and nephews and nieces. I love being an aunt! We are both working professionals and make a good living. We just built a new house on our family's farm. We love to farm here as a hobby and we are passionate about our home and our marriage, and our pets (those are our children right now). I find people jobs for a living and work from home, and my husband is an AVP for a real-estate company. We have been so lucky to have a happy marriage, and we know how blessed we are in many ways. I guess our favorite thing is just spending tine together with friends , family , and a lot of laughter! We love to make even the smallest moments fun. We have a passion for our chocolate Labradors and taking them for long walks and even to our trips to the beach. We have traveled a lot over the years and have seen a lot of the world. We are just ready to start our family finally!

Use this space to communicate a letter to potential Surrogates/Donors:

Dear Potential Surrogate, Hello! Please read our "reasons for wanting a Surrogate" section for more insight to why we need a Surrogate almost immediately. We are so excited to meet the person who will amazing and wonderful enough to agree to do this for us and soon. As you probably read, we have 6 perfect PGS tested embryos at our clinic on ice waiting for us to find our perfect Surrogate. Our idea of a perfect Surrogate is the following: a kind woman who truly likes to help infertile couples who have struggled for years to have children make their dream come true, somebody we can trust to be honest with us, somebody who wants to get started asap, somebody will treat our journey and the pregnancy with a high level of respect and be good at communicating with us during the process. We desire our Surrogate to be proven with medical records to back this up and/or somebody who knows they are medically fit to be a first time Surrogate. We also need a Surrogate with insurance that is surrogate friendly as the enrollment period has closed. We would prefer a Surrogate who lives in T.N. or N.C. if possible but if not, not too far from T.N. or N.C? We are open minded to different types of women everywhere but after what we have been through, honesty and trust is the most important quality. And this is something we feel goes two ways so we will also be as honest with you always. We are open to a Surrogate who wants to stay in touch afterwards, or one who does not. There is a strong possibility we may want to take this journey twice for a sibling in the future since we have 6 embryos. Or we may want twins but that is not something we have to have. If your not open to carrying twins but you have all the other qualities we want , that is fine as twins are risky to pregnancies. In the journey if you pick us to help, you will be fulfilling a lifelong dream for me and my husband. We are halfway there with our healthy embryos, will you help us get the rest of the way in our journey. Blessings to you for even reading all of this. Please reach out to us if you want to talk more! Sincerely, your future IP parents

USA
Tennessee
Spring Hill
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Ann, Surrogate Mother
Commented on March 11th, 2019 07:37PM [EDT]
Already approved!
I’ve been medically approved by Dallas IVF and psychological testing was completed, but couldn’t agree to some of the terms the IP’s demanded. Interesting in helping in your journey.
Breyana, Surrogate Mother
Commented on March 11th, 2019 04:02PM [EDT]
Surrogate Mom
Hello my name is Breyana. I am a minor 3 boys. There ages are 4,3,&2. I am looking to become a surrogate for a family who can not have children or there own . I would like to bless someone to feel that indescribable feeling of seeing and holding your child after birth as well as I could use the extra income to be even more financially stable . I am married and have been to my husband for 5 years .
cleopatra, Surrogate Mother
Commented on March 9th, 2019 12:15PM [EDT]
Will help you for free
Honest, sincere & genuine no play/no game/no trick
Angels Friend, Surrogacy Agency
Commented on March 7th, 2019 06:03PM [EDT]
we can assist
Hi Angels Friend s.r.o, an agency based in Czech Republic (Europe), can assist you all the way through your surrogacy process... contact us today to make your hope a reality The total cost of $40000 - $50000 that included all surrogate expenses such as agency fees, travel, medications, all surrogate compensations, IVF clinic cost, legal cost, prenatal care cost, maternity and delivery cost, is usually at least half the cost of the USA and the techniques and expertise of doctors here are rather to praise... For more information visit our website pm google and contact us should you have any question. Looking forward to hearing from you
Karen, Surrogate Mother
Commented on March 6th, 2019 06:55PM [EDT]
2xgc in va
I don't know if my last comment went through but I would love to chat! (:
Karen, Surrogate Mother
Commented on March 6th, 2019 06:54PM [EDT]
2xgc in va
I can not message you but you two sound lovely! I would love to chat and see if we are a match!
Carrying Hope Surrogacy, Surrogacy Agency
Commented on March 1st, 2019 10:56PM [EDT]
We have (2) GCs in WNC
Hey there, I took the time to read your entire profile. What a journey you two have been on. My goodness. Yes, I am representing an agency but I also read that you were very hopeful in finding a GC who lives in NC. We are currently working with 5 surrogates in NC and 2 in SC. I'm not sure where your clinic is, but 2 GCs are in Western NC and 2 are near Raleigh area and one in Charlotte. If you are interested, please feel free to send us a message, or you can email me Also, please know that because we currently are working with more GCs than IPs, we are offering a 25% discount on our agency fees.
Amanda, Surrogate Mother
Commented on February 25th, 2019 04:39PM [EDT]
South Carolina
I would love to help you fulfill your dream of becoming a mother. I live in South Carolina but I'm willing to travel. Please let me know how I can help you
Елена, Surrogate Mother
Commented on February 22nd, 2019 06:24AM [EDT]
Surrogate mother
Hello! Surrogate mother for You. Give birth to a child with love and care. If You're interested .
Erin, Surrogate Mother
Commented on February 21st, 2019 07:01PM [EDT]
Surrogacy
I am in Wisconsin, but would love to discuss becoming a surrogate. Feel free to message me.
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