I wanted to have kids because kids have always been a part of my life. Many people that I have dated said I would make a great daddy. As you get to my age, it is getting harder and harder to find someone who is willing and able to have children at this stage of their life. I am only getting started. I want a egg donor/surrogate that would give me a boy that I can take care of and focus on. I have lived my whole life focusing on myself, now I want to focus on someone else. Someone to teach, to play with and to love.
I am a very kind, but very deep-thinking person. I am somewhat of a caretaker. When people have problems, I tend to have an open ear. The draw back is that I tend to get emotionally involved in the problem internally. I have worked with kids my whole life. I have been a teacher from over 16 years, worked at summer camps and spend 2 years on 3 cruise lines as a youth counselor. I have always wanted kids, but never "buckled" down to have them. Always something better happening in the world. Having kids, I know, I would have to settle down and focus. Would they be well taken care of and loved, yes. Always. I work from home, so I would be there for them. It's not a problem breaking away from work to play, feed, or to change them.
Dear Donor and Surrogate, I wanted to write and let you know that I am ready to have my life changed forever. I want a chance to live a full life and "I believe" that includes having a child in my life. I choose the donor based on beauty and education, while I choose the surrogate to work with me, be friends, and someone else I can focus on. Help with good nutrition, doctor's appointments, and to be there through the ups and downs. This is called a team, and I am a team member. Thank you so much for sharing yourself to promote my and my child's future.