I’m one of the fortunate people that is “good” at being a surrogate mother, every embryo that doctors have transferred has ended with a full-term healthy baby,that’s rare. After my first time as a surrogate, I waited three years and worked on my surrogacy and wanted to do it more time. Addicting is not the right word, but the ability to help someone else is a very good feeling.
When i delivered the baby by surrogate in *** that was magical, but it wasn’t just one moment.There was the first time my intended mum put her hand on my belly and felt her son move and that look in her eyes.And then the moment of the delivery, when the intended father laid eyes on his son for the first time.I felt like I had really done something that mattered for someone else.
As for handling the baby off, i know that I’m not an attached type of person, i always viewed surrogacy as a long babysitting project, It’s not sad for me at all, i have no regrets whatsoever – I’m just glad I was able to participate, I am not rich person and i’ll never donate a wing of a hospital, but it’s one way i can give back to our world in a really big way, Without assistance, there would be two less children in the world, i am showing my child how to be generous and how to sacrifice for others.