Chantal, Polish Surrogate Mother in Roseville, Michigan, USA

Why I want to be a surrogate mother:

I’ve seen up close how heartbreaking it can be when someone learns they may not be able to carry a child. My best friend had to have a total hysterectomy before she was even 25, and I stood by her through every step of the grief and heartbreak that followed. That experience left a lasting impact on me. It made me realize how deeply I want to help someone who still holds onto the hope of becoming a parent. Giving that kind of love and joy to another family is something I feel truly called to do.

Description of myself:

I'm a down-to-earth mom of two boys, and family is everything to me. I'm deeply committed to creating a stable, loving life for my children, and being a surrogate is one way I hope to give another family the same joy. I take this journey seriously—I’m responsible, communicative, and emotionally grounded, with a strong understanding of what this process means. I’m also open-minded, trauma-informed, and looking to match with intended parents who value honesty, mutual respect, and emotional transparency. I believe this journey is just as much about connection as it is about logistics, and I’m excited to help build something truly meaningful.

My letter to intended parents:

Dear Intended Parents, Thank you for being here. I know your journey has likely come with its share of heartbreak, waiting, and hoping—and just the fact that you're still standing in the middle of all that speaks volumes about your strength and love. That kind of love deserves to grow into something even more beautiful. As a mom of two young boys, I’ve experienced firsthand how becoming a parent completely reshapes your world. My children are my reason for everything, and I carry them with me in every choice I make—including this one. Becoming a surrogate isn’t just about carrying a baby for someone else. For me, it’s about being part of something much bigger—something life-giving, not just in the physical sense, but in the emotional, spiritual, and future-building sense, too. This journey means that I get to give my children the gift of a brighter future. I get to show them what it means to show up for others in a deeply meaningful way. And at the same time, I get to give you the gift of holding your child—your long-awaited dream—in your arms. There is so much beauty in that exchange, and I don’t take it for granted. I’m looking to walk this journey with someone who values open communication, kindness, and mutual trust. Whether you want to be closely involved every step of the way or prefer a more private approach, I will always honor your needs and treat this process with the care and respect it deserves. More than anything, I want this to be a shared experience—something sacred, something healing. I know that families are built in all kinds of ways, and it would be an honor to help build yours. I’m ideally hoping to match with intended parents in the United States—preferably close to Michigan but not a deal breaker for an independent non agency based journey. I also ask that any clinic involved be willing to approach things on a case-by-case basis, with compassion and flexibility for individual journeys. With love and sincerity, Chantal