When I was 17 I got pregnant I had a healthy full term pregnancy and I had a natural birth on August 22, **11 but there were complications, the cord got wrapped around her neck and I couldn't push her out. After what seemed like forever they finally got her out with a medical suction vacuum and started CPR and got her breathing again but she went so long without oxygen it caused a lot of problems and she passed away at 4 1/2 months old, but she fought for as hard and as long as she could and i will forever love and cherish the short time we had with her. My 3 boys were all healthy and full term but I had them via c-section out of fear that it would happen again, but it wasn't medically necessary for me to have c-sections. I know what it feels like to lose a child and I know what it feels like to have them and be able to love them everyday and I dont know what i would have done if i couldn't have had more children after my daughter passed I would have been devastated, It breaks my heart knowing so many people who are loving and capable of giving a child the love and joy they deserve not be able to have their own, while so many people who dont deserve to do, so if I can help just one family be able to have a child it would be an honor and a privilege, anyone who tries this hard to have a child deserves to feel the kind of love and joy that a child brings. I feel it would be selfish if i didn't try to help knowing I am capable to.
I'm going to be as honest as I can be. I'm a very shy person, but that doesnt stop me from doing the things I enjoy. I'm a stay at home mom ( I choose to because we are financially able for me to but i will go back to work once all my boys are in school) I have three boys ages 5, 2, and 2 months. If I had to choose between going out for the night or staying home I would choose to stay home, My mom calls me a homebody lol, Don't get me wrong I do like going out occasionally, dinner movies ect.. My family means the world to me. I'm also a natural dirty blond but i dye my hair. I believe in God but I dont label myself as a christian, there are just to many religions to just believe only one is true, but I know in my heart that my daughter is in heaven watching over her brothers and me. My three boys all have the same dad (they were all planned pregnancy) we have been together for 7 years, we are not married. We just dont believe that we need a piece of paper to define our love well i should say i dont lol hes been trying for years to get me too, maybe one day i will. All in all i would define myself as a very down to earth person who enjoys the simple things in life.
I know my profile says I'm available but I just had my 3rd boy in July via c-section so I wont be able to surrogate for a couple of months I would say around January (I'm sorry I know thats a long time to wait, bc you've been waiting for so long already) but I wanted everyone to see my profile so they know it's still an option in the near future Iv had 3 c-sections and they went really well and I recovered fast from all of them but it is a major surgery so if I do surrogate for someone this will be my last, when i had my post surgery appointment in august i asked my doctor if i decided to get my tubes untied if i could have another and he said yes that my scar tissue wasn't bad at all he was actually really surprised at how well my body healed, I know many people worry about a surrogate having to many c-sections bc it could cause problems but i would have two separate doctors confirm that my body was healthy and in good shape to carry and have another baby via c-section before anything was planned and the intended parents could go with to those appointments to reassure them and of course i would give them the medical documentations as well. My tubes are tied so theirs no worry about me getting pregnant with my own child. I would like to inform the intended parents that i might have to take iron supplements while im pregnant, I didn't with my last child but i did with my 2nd but only during the 2nd trimester. I'm doing this because i want to be able to help a family get the miracle they deserve, but im not going to lie and say i dont benefit from it, the money i receive will help me get my teeth fixed when i was a teenager i didn't properly take care of my teeth and when i had my daughter they got really bad and after i lost her i didn't take care of myself like i should have i was drinking a case of pop in 2 days time and i did this for about 2 years and when i started to try and take care of them it was just to late and having my three boys made them worse, i go to the dentist every 3 months to have them cleaned and looked at but i need them replaced and we are financially stable but not enough to get the replacement teeth i want and we would be paying for them for years if we paid out of pocket and it would be nice to just pay for them and it be done with, I would like to note that I dont do drugs or associate with anyone who does, iv had to cut ties with really good friends and a couple of family members due to drugs, im saying this bc if you decide to choose me as your surrogate i will make sure you are loving, dependable and responsible people, i dont want to help someone bring a child into this world only to have them mistreat or put that child in danger, there are to many children being hurt in the world theses days I just want to make sure im helping the right family. Thank you for taking the time to read all this, even if you dont choose me I wish you all the best and hope you all get your babies (: and please feel free to message me if you might be interested or have any questions.