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Melissa, American Surrogate Mother in Bakersfield, California, USA

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Surrogate Mother from Bakersfield, California, USA.

My Current Surrogacy Status is

Currently Working With Agency

Im Willing to Help Couples of
Heterosexual Couple

I Agree to these Surrogate Types

Number of Children (non-surrogate)
4 or more

Number of Surrogate Children




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Why I want to be a surrogate mother:

After having five children myself, I know just how fulfilling it is. When you yearn for a child of your own there really is nothing else that can replace that heart desire, except a child itself. I wear many hats as a Mom but I do believe that my greatest calling is having the ability to bring healthy (and beautiful) children into this world, when so many simply cannot on their own. I believe surrogacy is such an incredible technological advancement in our world today that it should be available to all who need it. The other half of the reason I'm interested in becoming a surrogate is for the financial help it would bring to my family. We would love to own our own home but with five children and one income, it has been hard to save money for a down payment for a purchase. The money we would gain from helping a family would in turn go to helping our family buy a home of our own.

Description of myself:

My name is Melissa. I have been married for almost 10 years now. We have five beautiful, healthy children. Their ages are 9,7,3,2,1. my last baby was born on leap year day *** I am a stay at home Mother and my Husband works in the electrical utility field.We recently relocated from Southern California to Fresno, California.

My letter to intended parents:

Dear potential Intended Parents, Thank you for viewing my profile. I'm sure this time in your life although tough and heartbreaking at times, is also extremely exciting. There really will never be a more exciting time in your whole life, I truly believe and know that. It is my hope that I would be a perfect candidate for a family out there somewhere and also that I would meet them at just the perfect time in their lives. I believe myself to be kind, patient, good-natured and honest at the core. I would also expect the same from my Intended Parents. I hope that all our communications and transactions would be easy and respectful on both ends.However, I do not mix well with strong and controlling personalities since I am so passive. So I just ask that you would respect me and move to the next profile if you believe we would not be a good match. I also have another request that may not be standard. My Intended Parents would need to be willing and financially prepared to pay child care expenses for my one year old daughter and my two year old son for the first three months of pregnancy. This is due to the fact that I do get morning sickness from about week five to about week sixteen.I simply cannot keep up with my youngest two children with morning sickness all day and night, my Husband works full time and also out of town regularly. Please strongly keep this in mind when considering me as a candidate. Also, due to the fact that I have five young children with little outside help and support. I cannot travel for any Dr.appointments, all prenatal care and labor/delivery will have to be done in Fresno or Clovis California. Again, thank you for your consideration. And whether or not I'm your match..I hope and pray you get to hold your child in your arms very soon.


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Hello, this is Jennifer, PSRMC Advocate for Surrogates and Egg Donors. I am responding to you contacting me, regarding working as a Surrogate or Egg Donor. We are looking for Surrogates and Egg Donors, if you are interested, please give me a call.And we can talk, and go from there, and see, if the position, is a good fit for you or not. And if you meet the required qualifications. Thank you, and best wishes!
Gestational Surrogate
Hello, my name is Jennifer Williams, I am Advocate for Physician Surrogacy in San Diego, CA. I saw you profile on First Surrogate Mothers, and I was interested in speaking with you, about a career opportunity, in helping families, have children. Are you currently working with a family or an agency? If not, and you are interested, in working with us, or learning about what we have to offer, please facebook me at Jennifer Williams Los Angeles, CA, and we can go from there. Best wishes with your endeavors.
Lizette, Intended Parent
Commented on October 10th, 2017 04:59PM [EDT]
IP. We live in Bakersfield
Hi Melissa. We only have a couple of frozen embryos. We are looking for a surrogate close or in Bakersfield. Are you still available?
Genevieve, Intended Parent
Commented on August 20th, 2016 08:55PM [EDT]
Intended parents
Intended parents Hi Melissa My name is Genevieve I'm French , it's been 8 years we have try everything's with my husband to have a baby , I'm in Bakersfield for 3 month visiting my sister , I'm looking for a surrogate mother .please contact me and sorry for my English .thanks
Molly, Intended Parent
Commented on March 16th, 2016 04:14AM [EDT]
Documentaryfilm about surrogate mothers
Please contact me
Sherry, Intended Parent
Commented on March 9th, 2016 01:09PM [EDT]
Looking for a Perfect Match
My husband and I are seeking a wonderful surrogate to help us fulfill our dream of having a beautiful child.We currently do not have any children and would love to become parents as we have so much love to give and have a very stable home environment. We know that we will find the perfect match.Please call or text me anytime but the sooner the better.We are ready to go.We have the contracts and doctors all lined up.Call me to discuss compensation.Sherry ***
Global Surrogacy Center, Surrogacy Agency
Commented on January 17th, 2016 10:22PM [EDT]
We are looking for a Surrogate Mother
Hi, we are a California licensed surrogacy agency.Our Intended Parents are looking for surrogate mothers.If you are interested, please contact me .We also can answer your questions .Thank you!
Happy Future Surrogacy, Fertility Clinic
Commented on January 4th, 2016 03:05PM [EDT]
Hi Melissa,
How are you? I am with Happy future Surrogacy and we are an agency located in City of Industry, CA. We currently have IPs with embryos already frozen and ready to go. All they need is that perfect surrogate to get matched with. We offer a competitive benefits package to fit our surrogates needs. Let me now if you would like more information. Thanks! -Desiree Happy Future Surrogacy
wo, Intended Parent
Commented on June 6th, 2015 05:42AM [EDT]
IP seeking GS
Hello Melissa! We are childless IPs looking for surrogate help.We have tried 10 years but no good luck with my egg and uterus.We have embryos stored in a clinic in California, all are genetically tested normal embryos from donor eggs.We have funds in escrow account in California and are able to compensate a good amount for your help.I am interested in talking to you for a match at a good time when you are ready.Hope to hear from you. Thank you.
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